He has not replied
for 2 days.
Do you text again, or lose him?
Paste the message. Compare 3 modelled reaction paths, with relative AI estimates. Before you hit send.
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Jordan
TEMPERATUREMild
RATIO2:1
Do you ever think about me?
your draft
"I miss you."
3 modelled reactions
61%
"more than you think."
warm but cautious
28%
"yeah, sometimes"
holds distance
11%
reads, doesn't reply
pull-back risk
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Understand
History
Account
Illustrative relative AI estimates for this example. They are not measured or guaranteed probabilities.
How it works
The math of conversations
Nine minutes on what narcissus actually reads in a chat history, and what it deliberately does not claim to know.
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You type. Delete. Rewrite.
We compare possible paths before you send.
Situation
"He only replies with one word now. Yesterday he disappeared for three hours."
You read the message ten times. Draft a reply. Delete it. Rewrite it. Wondering: did I do something wrong? Am I losing him?
Ghost radar: 72
Avoidant pattern
Illustrative heuristic scores for this example, not measured event probabilities.
narcissus.black shows
This example is consistent with a pullback pattern; it does not prove the person’s intent.
Ghost radar flags changes in reply length, reciprocity and contact patterns so you can compare whether pressure or space may fit the situation better, plus a draft you can review before sending.
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How it works
Not a generic chatbot.
Case-specific context.
Two personality profiles
Your chat history
Research-informed frameworks
A case-specific comparison
Not a generic chatbot
More context, more signals to compare
Saved case context stays available
This is not a general chat that starts from zero each time. You add personality profiles, communication patterns, emotional triggers and your chat history. The app compares new inputs with that case context and shows traceable signals instead of generic dating advice.
hey, long time 👋
oh hey. yeah, it has been a lot lately
everything okay? you sound stressed
kind of 🙂
4 messages: initial signals detected. Relevant context broadens the comparison.
EXAMPLES: CLICK TO INSERT
"k"
One-word reply, a possible withdrawal signal
"haha yeah I know that 😂"
Warm and engaged, a positive signal
"I'll text you later"
Possible delay or deflection signal
"I think about that a lot too"
Possible vulnerability signal: they may be opening up
"yeah, maybe sometime"
Noncommittal wording; follow-through unclear
WHAT THE MODEL LEARNS
5 messages, reply timing, tone and attachment signals as context for comparison.
Feature 01
Test messages,
before you hit send
Write what you want to send. Compare how they might react and how the dynamic could shift before you choose.
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Write the message
Type what you want to send, or use the Tactic Toolbox to generate one.
2
3 modelled reaction paths
The model compares three plausible replies with relative percentage estimates and psychological reasoning.
3
Dynamic Shift
How does this message change the dynamic? Do you move closer together or farther apart?
4
3 voices debate it
Optimist, realist, and neutral all argue over the outcome. Throw in objections and the debate keeps going.
SIMULATE: FORWARD MODE
"hey, long time. how's it going?"
61%
"hey! good, you?"
Warm counter-question; may signal controlled engagement.
28%
"hey. all good"
Minimal reply. Waiting for more substance.
11%
Reads, doesn't reply
"Long time" can feel like pressure when the ghost pattern is active.
DYNAMIC SHIFT
Before: you are investing more. This draft may invite a reply while shifting the dynamic slightly.
Illustrative relative AI estimates for this example. They are not measured or guaranteed probabilities.
Feature 02
Messages that move the person
Choose up to 3 tactics, the tool writes a message shaped to the person's attachment style and shows exactly why it works.
1
MESSAGE← Choose tactics and generate
2
REACTIONSGenerate a message first
3
DEBATESimulate first
Feature 03: Ultra
Outcome Planner
Say what should happen. The tool finds the message the model ranks as the strongest route there, with a relative AI estimate.
- ✓Describe the exact outcome you want
- ✓3 message routes with relative AI estimates
- ✓Compare timing options
- ✓Know what you should absolutely avoid
Feature 04
Analytics, always current
The displayed patterns are derived from signals in your own chat and update as the conversation moves.
CONVERSATION TEMPERATURE
Cool
Trend: stable
POSITIVE TO NEGATIVE
5:1
✓Reference range
Illustrative 5:1 research benchmark
Conversation balanceBalanced
GHOST DETECTION
35%
MEDIUM, WATCH CLOSELY
Minimal responses60%
2 of the last 3 messages are under 8 characters.
Zero questions from them50%
They have not asked you anything recently, so there is no curiosity signal.
COUNTERMEASURE
Slight cooldown recommended. Mirror their energy level instead of outpacing it, and keep your own life visibly full.
FOUR HORSEMEN
Four conflict-pattern signals compared with your messages.
Stonewalling
×1
Self-soothe: take a 20 minute break, then re-engage.
DRAMA TRIANGLE
Karpman's rescuer, persecutor and victim dynamics.
✓
No matching signals in this example
Illustrative heuristic scores for this example, not measured event probabilities.
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